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brogalldude

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Sex Dolls VS Escorts
« on: August 16, 2020, 03:04:23 AM »
I bought a tpe sex doll in 2018, it's in good condition and pleases me exceptionally. But I still need the touch of a real woman. I'm a lot older now (in my mid 40's) and I don't particularly find the excitement in the dating scene. I just can't seem to attract women I find desirable anymore. I've uninstalled all my dating apps and decided to go full bore head long into hiring escorts to fulfill my sexual needs also starting around 2018.

For the most part, it's been amazing-when I can perform. For some reason, sometimes I just can't maintain an erection. I usually spend an hour with a beautiful escort and when I can maintain my erection, the sex is unbelievable. But 30 percent of the time, no matter what the escort does, my penis will not stand at attention-sometimes even popping the "viagra" will not help. It's definitely a weird psychological thing. The irony is, after ending an unsuccessful session with a sexy escort, I saunter back home defeated, break out my sexdoll and she finishes me off in minutes 100 percent of the time. It's such a strange significance-the way my penis reacts to a sexdoll vs an escort. I've seen some therapists regarding this issue and they always give me some blah blah blah academic responses that really hasn't help much and then suggests the blue pill of course. I've stopped trying to understand it. It could very well be my conscience cock blocking me for by passing the primordial chase.

I don't know what that says about me, but I still very much enjoy sex; my libido hasn't diminished  a single bit-it's still as pronounced as it was when I was 16. I'm grateful to my sexdoll for always fulfilling my sexual need, but I do love me the touch of a real woman every now and then. 


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Re: Sex Dolls VS Escorts
« Reply #1 on: August 16, 2020, 07:58:07 AM »
I got some experience with this. Haven't tried an escort since I owned dolls, but I have had girlfriends. As mentioned, I just can't attract a desirable woman at my age, and dolls have changed me. When I got my 1st good doll in 2014, I could only screw 3-4 times a week, and if I did manage to screw a RG, I probably didn't last long or make a good account of myself. Sometimes I'd reach climax without ever being fully hard. Things were going south after my wife died (2011), and after 2 live-ins that were next to impossible to evict, I bought a Real Doll.
6 years later, things have changed.
1) I can can screw 3-4 times a DAY now, 3 times every day if I'm not working. 1-2 if I am.
2) Any level of ED I was experiencing is all but gone unless BP is up or tired.
3) Really not looking for a woman any more, unless I can find one like my deceased wife, probably not interested.
4) I am happier now than I was with first 2 wives and a dozen+ live-ins.
5) Sex happens whenever I want it to, and I do whatever I want. That right there is HUGE.
Women:
6) Instead of climaxing too soon, I now struggle to climax, because the dolls are tighter and better looking, totally cooperative, don't distract you, and success is damn near guaranteed. I'd rather fake an orgasm than cum too soon.
7) Groping: I've always been a groper. With dolls, that tendency is exacerbated. I can hardly walk by one with squeezing a tit. To me, it's fun and natural, but apparently extremely irritating to some women. It should be a category on match.com. 99% would avoid me with that box checked.
8) RW can't stand my libido. Most don't want it more than 1-2 a week at my age (60). Nothing is more frustrating than having to run off your GF in order to get laid by your doll. So I end up dumping them for depriving me of sex, and other inconveniences.
9) Women can smell desperation a mile off. That smell disappeared off me when I bought my first doll. It helps when "recruiting." Then, I'm an enigma when they can't control me with sex. Half of them are disappointed, apparent hoping I was not too keen on sex, only to learn I'm a pervert. Some TRY to keep up, but end up making too many excuses. Others walk away the second they find out I need lots of sex.
10) If, during sex, the thought come over me, "My DOLL is better than you," that relationship is finished, and that keeps happening.

Hey! Do you know what causes ED? Not using your penis. Mine almost died when my wife died, and now it is in good health, thanks to dolls. Had I not purchased one when I did, who knows if my dick would still be functioning? Those escorts still have value, but dolls can do what they do, with far less hassle and expense. The older you get, the harder it becomes to find someone desirable that wants to have sex with you, and even harder to find someone compatible. I did it, ONCE.....

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Re: Sex Dolls VS Escorts
« Reply #2 on: August 16, 2020, 02:10:53 PM »
Sorry to hear about your SO, but i"m glad the sex dolls has reinvigorated your sex drive. I just find it odd about myself that I can perform 100 percent of the time with sex dolls but not with real women. It's such a strange dilemma.

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Re: Sex Dolls VS Escorts
« Reply #3 on: September 12, 2020, 06:10:43 AM »
Sorry to hear so many men with problems that lead to the “little blue pill”. I was having some of the same issues, until I started to look closely at the meds I was on, and their side effects. Blood pressure meds and depression meds can affect your libido, erection, and even weather you can finish the job or not. I found out what meds to eliminate to correct this issue, and now, I have the sex life of an 18 year old.
   I found that even the Gincko biloba wound cause me to be unable to perform. If you are having similar problems, I would definitely research the meds you take and their side effects, and talk to your doctor to find alternatives.
   And yes, there are times my dolls out perform my wife, but don’t tell her so! Good luck, gentlemen.

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Re: Sex Dolls VS Escorts
« Reply #4 on: September 12, 2020, 11:49:45 AM »
Perhaps a professional cuddle is what you should investigate.  I don't know if a cuddler would be less expensive than an escort, but you could get the touch of a real woman without feeling defeated regarding sexual performance, just the wholesome feeling of that close contact with a real woman.


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Re: Sex Dolls VS Escorts
« Reply #5 on: September 12, 2020, 10:52:15 PM »
Well, it’s not much of a science or secret, a sex doll has the advantage of its oraffices being Engineered by a specialist. On the other hand, a woman who has had a child, ( and what woman doesn’t want to have a baby) has had the vagina stretched, and it never goes back to being virgin tight. My TPE stretches, but recoils to the original shape, thank God.
   My doll baby may never make me dinner, but she still cooks! Ta, Gents!

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Re: Sex Dolls VS Escorts
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